Crushes!! Crushes!! Crushes!! We all have them, we all get one at one point or another and we all take them differently. Some of us crush so easy and fast, some are pretty hard and last for a long time before you even say anything to the person you have a crush on, that is, if you decide to say anything at all. why is it that human interactions are always the hardest, its like we would rather learn heart surgery than talk to the person we like the most or at least admit to them that we have a crush. However, it does suck when we are crushing so bad and so hard, but we know the other person just isn't interested, we feel rejection in a sense and depending who you are, it'll either be easy or hard to let that go. Sometimes it sucks because we develop crushes on friends and we tend to be afraid to ruin the friendship that we do not even attempt to say anything at all, but sometimes we do and depending on each individual it either goes, again, good or bad. Either way, crushes are just crushes, sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don't, but sometimes you just wish this would work out for the best and you get to end up with your crush, meh! Good luck with your crush if you have one.
Remember, just don't be afraid to admit to your feelings, I always tend to think that as long as your honest and you go for it, and even if you fail you can say, "at least I tried." or something along those lines. What do we have to lose? Our pride? Lets just put that aside for a few moments and realize even if we do embarrass ourselves, life will go on, you won't die, you'll live to see tomorrow! So if you have the courage, just go for it! People always like to know they are liked, even if the feelings aren't mutual.
If you're sprung and you know the other doesn't feel the same, just let it go. You have a lot of others who would be willing or eventually will have a crush on you when you are crushing on them too. At least, thats the way I see it.
"Love is more than saying I love you..."
This reminds me so much of that 90s song Crush by Jennifer Paige how she's telling him that she just has a crush but he isn't her world. I love that! And the quote at the end reminds me of this one 'Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but looking outward in the same direction.' Love your blog! Keep it up!
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