The choices we make dictate the lives we live.

Today I woke up to a couple of text messages. They were from one of my best friends. He was asking me about a situation he was in and it inspired me to write this blog. I know I've already touched on it a bit in my previous blogs, but here we go.

Bare with me for a moment and take this scenario into consideration. You're in a relationship and you love this person. Things are seemingly well and you have little to no doubt about what you're doing in the relationship. However, your partner becomes distant and eventually asks you to "take a break"...You agree and begin to hang out with friends and such, but one of them is someone who you start to develop feelings for as more than a friend, but you never cross the line and cheat on your partner because you still love them and feel even though you're on a break you don't want anything to happen to lose their trust. You're confused, you don't know what to do. Moreover, you feed off affection and the feelings you have developed for this new person are strong and you don't want it to stop. But, you're stuck and don't know what to do...What do you do...?

I'm sure many of you would know exactly what to do or how to feel. It would be easy, but it isn't for everyone. We all handle and think things differently. My opinion on this situation is just this: it's a break, obviously for reasons both parties know. If new feelings are developed then who are we to fight them? I suppose it would be best to act accordingly if you would like and see what happens. Sometimes it's better to follow your heart than your mind. Sometimes easier said than done I know.

My friend, let me tell you this guy is awesome. He pretty much blows all other guys out of the water, puts them to shame. He works off his heart and not his mind or ego [at least thats how I see it]. Most just want in it for the sex or looks only, to be able to brag later and say "yeah I hit that!", but some aren't and its rare to find. Not only guys either, but a PERSON in general who can be like this. It is good when a person knows the right ways in which a person, anyone, should be treated and when you can learn to like, crush, love, and even appreciate someone for who they really are as a person and not as an object that's when you know you truly have a genuine person on your hands. Anyway this can go on forever and I don't really want it to. So, if you have anything you want to share as far as your opinion or anything, feel free to leave a comment or something.

"Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise."