My blog tonight will try to follow in her footsteps, adding my own opinion as well as commenting on hers. Tina, these flow of words were beautifully written by you and really caught my eye because I never took you for the passionate deep thinker type, this post showed me otherwise. I am glad we can share a connection in that sense. I as well as you am many things, no doubt about that, maybe more insecure than most, yet confident in my heart and my knowledge of following it. I agree that a woman should be free and express herself, more or less women have been doing so. Yes, they are still under scrutiny but not as before. However, I feel that sometimes as opposed to men, it's just not a womans place to talk about her sexuality or express the intimate things she does. Unlike a man who does this very freely. It is said that we as women have a reputation to keep, do we not? Maybe i'm just old fashioned, but I do believe these things are better left in privacy, of course shared when wanted, just not put on blast. I don't believe we are frowned upon or put out to made to feel belittled, however, I do understand there are still some people who feel the need for all of this. I think women are powerful beings, and we have definitely showed the world what we are made of in many ways, that goes without a doubt. We have came so far. So, no, I don't think its about us feeling insignificant, we ARE free. I've heard a lot of women say they like to have control in their everyday life, but when it comes to sexuality and being intimate, some do tend to like to be submissive. Letting the man initiate the first move in every sense, take control. Letting him be dominant in bed, yet not making her feel like she is being used. This is not including women who also like to be dominant in their sexual lives, obviously. I feel woman who do like submission in that sense are still powerful, still have control, still have their freedom and they know exactly how to handle it all. When it comes down to feeling like we are being scrutinized or belittled or whatever else, think about it, who's really doing it all? Men who want all control, men who are pigs and think they are king of all, men who don't respect women. It's the man in him, unfortunately he IS a man, seen as a protector, guardian, provider, etc. Not that a woman can't be all these things, and I am definitely not taking the guys side here, but when it comes down to it, who do women turn to when something is wrong? Unfortunately this card goes to the man, it's natural. However, this has the guy's heads in that mode only. Most guys have changed and have come to learn to respect a woman in every way possible, even her freedom to express herself in every way. Whereas, some men still think like they are cave men. It's wrong yes, but that is our world, there is no way around it. Every woman, man, child is different, kudos to those who know how to respect womens as well as mens personal choices and freedoms. So, I say to you Tina: MORE POWER TO YOU! haha, seriously, I am glad you feel so strongly about something and about your beliefs, If it matters to you, it matters to me. I just wanted to share my side as well. Please, please, please, do not take this post as me saying I only believe that men can do things or be in charge or be able to protect, provide, etc. This is NOT what I am saying, I am merely speaking out of my general opinion on the world as a whole. What I see around me from people. I know that women are as fully capable as men in many aspects. I would never for a second put a woman down in any way. I do see us as all equals. If I got more into this I'd be writing all night, so for now I will leave it here and end my thoughts now. =]
"It's the magic of risking everything for a dream that nobody see's but you."
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