People always surprise me. It's funny because in some way even though you think you know a person, it COULD turn out that you really don't. I guess it's all in what you want to believe and how much you really trust a person. People amaze me, the way they say they are and the way they really are. It is a never ending battle with people because sometimes it's hard to find the right ones to trust, especially if you've been let down so many times. You have to find it in you not to take out everyone else's mistakes on others. That itself can be a harsh deal. At the same time, were human, we make mistakes and can never be perfect.
Ideally we all want to be the perfect person. But there is so much attention to the people we are. Why? It's the basis of all relationships, we need to know who we are dealing with, paying attention to little details, observing how one acts in front of different crowds, it's generally something everyone worries about. They say you don't really know a person untill you get inside their head, how vulnerable do you have to be to be taken seriously? I suppose it really does come down to what you want to believe, the actions as well as the words, then you really know what you're dealing with. It makes sense, at least to me it does.
"If you hope for nothing, you will get nothing."
i like this.
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